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Recognising Red Flags

Sextortion and Financial Scams: What to Watch For

Last updated 6 July 2026

These scams rely on shame and urgency to stop you from getting help. Neither should.

1. What sextortion looks like

A stranger builds trust quickly, moves the conversation toward explicit images or video, then threatens to share what they have with your contacts or online unless you pay. Some versions now use AI-generated deepfake images instead of real ones, which makes the threat no less distressing but does not make it any more legitimate.

2. Financial scams

Investment opportunities, cryptocurrency schemes, and urgent requests for gift cards or bank transfers are common versions of the same underlying pattern: someone you have not met asking for money.

3. If it happens to you

  • Do not pay. Paying rarely ends the threat and often invites further demands.
  • Stop responding, but keep evidence: screenshots, usernames, payment requests.
  • Block and report the account on SubDom immediately.
  • Contact the organisations below. This happens to a lot of people, and they will not judge you for it.

4. Who to contact

  • Revenge Porn Helpline, for threats involving intimate images, UK adults: 0345 6000 459
  • Report Fraud, for financial scams: 0300 123 2040
  • Police: 101, or 999 if you are in immediate danger

Frequently asked questions

Will paying make them stop?

Usually not. It tends to invite further demands rather than end them, since it confirms you are willing to pay.

I am too embarrassed to report this.

That reaction is common, but the organisations above deal with this every day and exist specifically to help without judgement.

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