1. Share gradually
Keep early conversations on the platform where possible. You can choose to share a phone number, social account, face photo or more personal details later, after a person has shown they are respectful and consistent.
Pressure to move quickly, prove your interest with a photo, or keep a secret from people you trust is a reason to slow down. You never owe anyone an image or an explanation for saying no.
2. Check what a photo reveals
Before sending or uploading an image, look beyond your face. Backgrounds can reveal a workplace, home, regular route or other personal information. Remove location data from photos where your device allows it, and avoid sharing images you would be distressed to see saved or forwarded.
3. If someone misuses an image
Save evidence, stop engaging, and use the platform's block and report tools. If someone threatens to share an intimate image, do not pay or negotiate. The UK Revenge Porn Helpline can provide confidential support and practical advice.
- Use a separate email address for dating if discretion is important
- Use a unique, strong password for your account
- Review linked accounts and public social-media privacy settings