1. In conversation
Pressure to move off-platform immediately, send money, or share explicit images before any trust is built are common scam patterns, not signs of genuine interest.
Someone who treats no as something to be persuaded out of you, rather than an answer, is showing you how they will treat your limits later, not just now.
2. Around consent specifically
A genuine D/s dynamic still runs on ongoing, enthusiastic consent underneath it. Treat any framing of submission as a reason your no does not count, or that safewords are for beginners, as a serious warning sign.
3. What to do
Trust the discomfort even if you cannot immediately articulate why. Block and report the account from their profile. Our moderation team reviews every report.